Yuen Method

YUEN METHOD - HOLLYWOOD MAG

Everyday provides an opportunity to learn and grow, enjoy and participate in our well-being. Learning as a lifelong process has been attributed to longevity. Curious connection and wonderment leads to more joy in living. On a daily basis our frustrations, physical ailments, pain, depression, stress, and limited beliefs block our potential. My experience in a week-end training with Dr. Kam Yuen, renowned healer, 35th generation Shaolin Grand Master of Kung Fu, and creator of the Yuen Method was about to give me a new lease on life!
In a quest to cope with my grief over the loss of Byron, my precious, 22 year-old-son, I began a conscious effort to ‘Live in his memory’. It was decision I made, knowing that was what he would want for me. My tumultuous inner pain, remorse, and unresolved issues made that possibility a future goal, rather than a reality. Losing a child is one of the most difficult losses to survive. The grief can be all consuming, it can depress, immobilize, leaving one with crippling sensations of hopelessness and a diminished will to go on. There were days when I was flat out, suffering in physical and emotional agony, as if a stake were being driven through my heart. I would attempt to breathe through it, praying it would cease or I would surely succumb to a broken spirit.
While Byron was alive, I desperately searched for doctors that dealt with the whole person; body, mind, spirit. He had been given mass dosages of psychotropic medications by psychiatrists, who refused to consider, or test for an underlying cause for his impulsive and heightened energy levels. They ignored tests that indicated hormonal imbalances that could cause mood swings or his off the charts, high Cortisol levels, which cause anxiety and a perpetual flight or flee reaction. Once the medication syndrome began, it became an exercise in futility. There was not a facility in the USA that was equipped and knowledgeable regarding the detoxification of the debilitating psychotropic’s that were numbing, sedating, and making Byron isolative.
The medications affected Byron neurologically. As a kid, he was a Black Belt in TAE Kwon Do, and after taking the meds he slowed down to a physical halt, barely able to jog. He developed Tachycardia and the doctors ignored the life-threatening consequences. Modern psychiatry is floundering in the dark ages, controlled by the pharmaceutical companies - A multi-billion dollar business, fueled by insurance companies that ultimately dictate a patient’s treatment. My son became a tragic victim of this insanity and out of sheer ignorance I trusted the medical care system that failed him.
Four months after Byron’s passing, I was in the throes of deep grief; floundering in guilt, remorse, and sadness. Yet, at other times an ecstatic awareness pervaded, “That I was, I am, and always will be in a profound connection with Byron’s soul.”
In a week-end workshop with Dr. Kam Yuen, an awareness shift, reframing my grief and redefining my life’s purpose would dramatically unfold. The Yuen Method involves the balancing of body, psyche, mental, spirit in a practical way. As a beginning practice we learned to go into a neutral state, detaching from our issue, whether it was physical pain, emotional depression, financial woes, or whatever. The technique involves placing a hand over the midline region; repeat the words “go to neutral”. Instantaneously, I felt a detached awareness. From this neutral state of being, the art of intuitive sensing can be developed and utilized. For many of the participants, not to think, analyze or to be unattached to outcomes is diametrically opposed to a traditional learning process. In my quest to heal, I knew I would then find a way to help someone else from going down the same path…as I did with Byron.As humans we have a collective programming that has existed for eons. Triggers, whether emotional, situational or psychologically based precipitate and set-off the unconscious choices we make. Imagine if we were able to delete our reaction to limiting and debilitating core issues and operate from a less reactive neutral zone. Dr. Yuen, by affecting a non-reactive neutral state (body, mind, and spirit) allows the space to unearth the inhibitors that keep us from moving forward. From a detached state of awareness, triggers of frustration, the limiting and unfulfilling inhibitors and self- saboteurs are diminished in our life. This quantum notion involves transformation for the healing of pain, ailments and other dysfunction.
Starting from a ‘neutral’ state is important or we are overly charged and unable to intuit. If treating yourself, place a hand across your midline and repeat, “neutral.” It’s that simple and instantaneous. Dr. Yuen shared, “If it takes more than two seconds to determine the ‘truth’, you’re taking too long.”
The Yuen Method is a learnable technique that a lay person, as well as chiropractors or doctors can use. As Dr. Yuen worked with the other participants, I was learning by osmosis. Dr. Yuen’s precise questioning, Socratic in nature and intuitive is spontaneous, helping one to listen and respond to what comes in the moment. Muscle testing the participant is a simple technique to determine whether they test strong or weak on an issue. The participant has arm outstretched and you ask the question, “Are you unhappy with your finances?” The practitioner, then pushes on the arm with pressure. If it goes down, it indicates weak. Indicating, “Yes “, I’m unhappy about finances. If the arm remains up, and strong, it indicates, “No”, I’m not unhappy about finances.
If the person tested weak, a correction is done. The correction can involve root aspects, including emotional, psychological, physical, spiritual, psychic, or mental possibilities. When the practitioner goes through the list, testing, a clearer cause is determined; that can include several different root aspects. While moving a hand across the lower abdomen or back, the practitioner repeats, “Correct for that.” The process continues, until the issue is neutralized or diminished.
“Do you feel a shift?” requires a “yes “or “No” answer. Learning to be aware, to recognize and acknowledge the shift, regardless how minor gives space for the next observable question. By saying “Yes” my arm pain is reduced a little, and then going on and on with, “but the pain is still there”, rather than acknowledging the slight improvement, negates the shift. Either you are pregnant or you are not, is Dr. Yuen’s example, for simply saying, “Yes or No”.
While working with me on my grieving state, Dr. Yuen proceeded to ask me questions. My mind seemed blank, as we dealt with my guilt and feelings, “What didn’t I do to help Byron”, “Did I do the wrong thing”, or the answerable, ”Why did he have an untimely death?”
Dr. Yuen asked the unfathomable, “Do you believe you have to grieve?” Viscerally, I accepted that was a given. Everyone grieves. It isn’t a concept, or a mere belief - I missed my son. “Yes or no?” Dr. Yuen prodded. I grumbled and mumbled, was thrown into a blank-mind, finally admitting, “Yes” I do believe I have to grieve. The awareness stunned me. I felt a shift immediately. I was much calmer, lighter in being. Dr. Yuen was direct, “Now you can help others deal with their loss.”
Dr. Yuen ‘corrected’ the energy charge, removing it. Reducing the extreme despair, when thinking the same thoughts - The whys and should haves, the guilt’s, punishing myself for being here when Byron, my beloved son, had transitioned before me.
Since the class, I have been practicing the Yuen Method on myself, from eliminating neck pain or procrastination to moving out of stuck behavior or inertia. For example, if a task feels monumental and I’m resisting getting started, I muscle test for the root cause, which could be the fear of not completing it or giving into the underlying depression, that nothing is worth it anymore. Whatever the case, I ‘correct’ for it.
A boon also arrived; I slowly began a relationship with Byron, in the multi-dimension plane he operates in, out of the human form, an unfolding revelation of a loving eternal soul to soul connection.
How amazing to find a transformational quantum energy technique in our fast paced world that works quickly to alter bad habits, eliminate addictions, get pain relief, and even change erroneous beliefs about financial security, losing weight, or aging.
These extraordinary possibilities are accessible. Visit www.yuenmethod.com for classes and private sessions with Dr. Yuen.